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DISCIPLINING ADHD CHILD:

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The most difficult issue concerning an ADHD child is the disciplining ADHD child. Disciplining a child with ADHD is atrocious.

Your daily routine with ADHD child is sometimes devastating. The most concerned question of the parents is “how to discipline a child that has ADHD?” And the answer is not in five words.A whole ADHD book can be written over this issue.

Being a psychiatrist I have daily interference with ADHD patients and their family members. Parents of ADHD children are always seeking help regarding how to discipline a child with ADHD. Though there are several ADHD child books are available on this topic.

But no matter whatever book you read, you’ll get almost the same stuff in it. It’s actually you and the bond between you and your child that makes the difference.

The seeking parents always get a particular set of advice from me. You want to have a piece as well? Well here are the basics.

STEP BY STEP TO DISCIPLINING YOUR ADHD CHILDREN:

1. Don’t forget the nature of ADHD children. They are meant to be problematic and you can’t help it!!

2. Be patient. Please he/she is just a kid. And even don’t know why he creates chaos. And you know the reason, so if you act inappropriately than nobody can help.

3. Be consistent in rules you develop for your kid. He will take advantages if you won’t keep your words.

4. Demonstrate new or difficult tasks, using action accompanied by short, clear, quiet explanations. Repeat the demonstration until learned, using audiovisual-sensory perceptions to reinforce the learning.

The memory traces of a hyperactive child take longer to form. Be patient and repeat.

5. When you are talking to kid, making him understand what wrong he did, don’t allow anyone to interfere in it. Only one person should be responsible to tell him what’s good and what’s not.

6. Don’t laugh or smile on stupid pranks he makes. If you will, he will keep on doing that.

7. Do not pity, tease, be frightened by or overindulge your child. He has a special condition of the nervous system that is manageable. Similarly don’t beat, scold, confront or scream at your child.

8. Avoid a ceaselessly negative approach: “Stop.” “Don’t.” “No.”

9. Always give him good remarks enclosing the message that you want actually to deliver. For example “Son, I really love you but I don’t like the way you spill your food while eating. Don’t you love mommy? Can’t you help me by controlling this habit?”

10. Don’t make false promises on rewards. Instead actually reward him when he does it good.

11. It is important to ask his choices, his preferences. Like when will you be free for homework? Ok I’ll wait for that time.

12. Tell him in a nice way that you don’t like it when people, neighbors and teachers complaint of you. You are such a nice kid, why don’t you show it to the world.

There are so many other things as well. You need to learn it yourself as every kid is different from another. And I hope you can do this. Good luck!!!